It’s
true, “money doesn’t buy happiness.” There are factors that contribute to
happiness or unhappiness, it appears that simply earning more money isn’t
enough to ensure happiness. Financial independence is a means to an end, a
tool. Financial independence alone will not make you happy. It’s what you do
once you become financially independent that determines your level of
happiness. Too often, we set goals about what we want to own. While these
things can add to our level of satisfaction, happiness will ultimately come
from accomplishing goals.
Other said that money does indeed
translate to happiness. But only when it is self-earned, when it is a direct
result of effort by you, not money simply bestowed upon you. It brings
happiness when the wealth is the result of real value that you have added to
the world in some important way. Happiness is a uniquely subjective experience.
People with significant wealth are almost happier than those with less in the
bank. Billionaires take personal responsibility for their happiness, just as
they take personal responsibility for their businesses, their failures, and
their lives. They seek to make a difference in the world, and the money is both
the reward for their worthy contributions and the means to carry their dreams
and their enterprises farther.
Although money is the fuel that propels you
to your goals, money does not provide a guarantee that you will get what you
want, accomplish what you desire, or become a better person. In fact, it is not
necessary for you to have a lot of money to achieve success in life. Mother
Teresa had a very little financial wealth, but had immense happiness and
satisfaction with her life.
If you take time to step back from the
details of your daily life and focus on the bigger picture, you will find that
there is probably at least an area or two in your life that is going well,
maybe your job, your marriage, or your relationship with your kids. Most people
can usually find some satisfaction in their lives.
On the other hand, there may be an area
or two that causes dissatisfaction, maybe even frustration or anger. You may be
able to pinpoint those areas that make you unhappy. In an effort to advance in
one area of our lives, we often neglect another. Marital problems can destroy a
good career, just as career problems can derail good marriage. By neglecting
certain parts of our lives, we allow these areas to infect the areas where we
are satisfied. These problems have the potential to undermine our success and
overall happiness in life.
A balanced life is comprised of
different life zones, the major areas of your life that are most meaningful and
important to you. The common life zones are: (1) Family (2) Relationships (3)
Business and Career (4) Physical Health (5) Personal Growth (6) Spirituality
and (7) Financial Health. The importance of good financial health cannot be
overemphasized. Like poor physical health, financial health can have an
immediate and dramatic impact on the other areas of your life. Financial
difficulties can split marriages, tear families apart, and can be a catalyst
for health problems.
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